Serious Mistake

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Plain White T's - Serious Mistake

I am not a church going man, but father please won't you hear my confession.
There's a situation at hand though I have sinned won't you teach me a lesson.
I deserve nothing less than the worst you can do,
Father please make me more like you.

I've made a serious mistake,
I hope its not too late to fix the heart I'm breaking.
I've made a serious mistake,
I hope its not too late to fix the heart I'm breaking.
I've made a mistake.

ooohh ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh ooh oh

I keep on letting myself down.
Even the rats say they don't want me around.
But every heart will someday break,
Everyone will make mistakes, wanna live with no regrets,
walk the fine line between love and sex.
I deserve nothing less than the worst you can do.
Father please make me more like you.

I've made a serious mistake,
I hope its not too late to fix the heart I'm breaking.
I've made a mistake

To fix the heart I'm breaking
I've made a serious mistake
And I hope its not too late to fix the heart
I'm breaking
I'm breaking
I'm breaking
I've made a mistake

I am not a church going man but Father please won't you hear my confessions.

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I hope
... 下一次的关心是真正地接纳
... 下一次的相处是真正地放松
... 下一次的我们是真正地自然


虽然最后我还是一头雾水，但至少我了解了几个道理

1.
不是做得多就是做了，也不是做得好就是做了。
做的前提是[对方要不要]。
如果对方不要而你做了，就是你的不对。
做的前提也是[你是不是那个人]?
如果对方要而不要你做，也还是你的不对。

切记：有些人摆在那里，什么都不做，却胜过你花尽心思掏心掏肺的付出。


2.
不是你想知道就一定会知道，你越想知道人家可能越不让你知道。
有些事可以问清楚，就不要等。
有些事可以问清楚，但结果可能会很痛苦，也不要等。

我说 [可是我很想知道为什么 我不是应该问吗?]
JoJo（生气）说 [你问了 你知道了 又有什么用?]

末了，还语重心长地说 [You need time to get through man...]
被抛弃过的人就是不一样，哈哈。

不要以为《十万个为什么》看多了，你就可以成为乌拉博士。
知道了有用的事，就问吧!
知道了又有什么用的事，就像一层纸。捅破了，就哭吧……


3.
不要随便踩进别人的安全距离里。
如果踩进去了，除非对方愿意，不然要快点出来。
如果踩进去了，对方不愿意，你还在里面踩来踩去，结果就是你被大笨象踩死。


原来我不知死活地踩进人家的安全范围里，在里面走来走去，
还拼命地问对方 为什么?

欠打。


这样的情形还是第一次，也希望是最后一次。
我想我是真的受伤了，也该休息了。

原来人太自以为是，是会有报应的；
原来人太好太完美，也是有烦恼的。


I have made a mistake.
I hope I am fixing the hearts, for both.

Sorry my friend.